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Hi Im James Cash one of the cofounders of Sirens a seduction coaching company for women. Ardenne Leigh and I started Sirens as a response to the male pickup communities. The pickup communities stated when a bunch of bright fellows on the internet where wondering why they spent all their time talking to each other on line instead of meeting women and dating like the rest of society. They began studying psychology in an attempt to see what triggered attraction in females and to see if they could come up with strategies and tactics that would make them more desirable to women. What they came up with was nothing short of remarkable because they had decoded female attraction, made systematic ways of exploiting it and most importantly because it worked. As the communities grew in numbers so did their knowledge base.
Any one who’s worked around the adult industry knows that there are also systematic ways of triggering attraction in men. Its common place in the adult industry where exotic dancers, domminatices and escorts have been doing it for years but it was never as organized or recorded for posterity sake. For the years that I had my club I began not only recording what worked but also researching to find out why it worked. As I began this project I found that wealth of scientific data existed on the subject of seduction and attraction but no one ever really converted the research into strategies and tactics that the average woman can use like the pick up communities have done for men. I’ve spent the last several years not only researching seduction but also consulting and coaching people from a wide range of the adult industry on how to apply it to their business. Most woman don’t have access to this kind of knowledge and instead women are left with trite advice columns telling them to get a new little black dress (the cliché LBD) and spice up their sex lives with candles and whipped cream. Aside from making you look like every other woman in the bar, creating a fire hazard and risking a yeast infection this kind of advice dose nothing to help you find real romance. Ardenne and I set out to make this type of training available to “civilian” (non adult industry) women.
The reasons that many woman can benefit from this are simple. First having a great love life wont make the rest of your life perfect but having a bad love life or no love life at all will certainly add its own type of poverty to even the richest life. Second as many women are climbing the career ladder they have less and less time to devote to romantic pursuits so anything they can do to speed up the time it takes to attract, connect with and maintain a fulfilling relationship can give them a huge advantage. Third if you admire someone in your life who doesn’t seem to notice you romantically having a new set of skills to real him into your web can help you finely land the one that got away. Forth if your relationship is out of your control and he seems to be calling all the shots there are a number of ways to get it back under control so you are getting what you want out of the relationship.
If your interested in our classes please go to our meetup group to stay informed on upcoming events.
http://www.meetup.com/Sirens/
I’ll also be posting tips and tricks on this blog periodically.
Thanks
James
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